I was thinking this week about the assumptions I made in my fifties about the gardens of those in their seventies and eighties. How easy it is to use those little words 'let go' with a limited understanding of the circumstances.
Once, in the warm South East, we used to supplement our income and offer gardening services to pensioners. This was usually a happy experience as we, by which I mean my husband with self as 'gaffer's assistant', cut back, mowed lawns, prised weeds out of pavers, pulled self-seeded trees, trimmed lavender bushes, strimmed lawn edges, dead-headed roses, grubbed up invasive ivy and any other such tasks that we could complete within two hours with the kit we possessed and a 1999 hatchback (still on the road) to transport it.
In two afternoons of two hours blessed with sunny intervals I managed a very minimal garden tidy of my own. I cut down half of the self-seeded Jerusalem Artichokes which have been annually waving outside the patio windows, and dug up as many artichokes as I could find. I tidied up dead leaves of Lily of the Valley, I moved (carefully) containerised fruit bushes and strawberries to cover the gaps left when I moved the pelargoniums indoors and I uprooted, with some effort two rogue and previously unnoticed sycamore seedlings.
I hope I will be able to keep our garden tidy. I do not want a lawn that has spread into a herbacious border denuded of everything except daylilies. I do not want rogue sycamores or ivy that has self-seeded into the patio or the buttercup that has crept from a crack by the fence or couch grass with white roots.
It was hard work. I finished it without the gentle and grateful chat of an older customer. Also I had to make my own coffee and biscuits.
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